After our day in the village, we spent Saturday afternoon
and evening watching the Olympics and the Chiefs vs. Pirates soccer game, which
is a HUGE rivalry around here. Cassie and I also finally decided to attempt
tortilla chips and guacamole, as the abundance of avocados has gotten
out-of-control with the nurses at Julie’s clinic giving her bags of them all
the time. Apparently, the thought around here is that a plump wife means a
successful husband, so the nurses keep telling Julie (who is very tall and
thin), that she needs to eat a lot of bread and avocados so her husband ‘looks
good’.
Yesterday was a lazy day around Acacia until 16h00, when our
local friend Marcus had us over to his home for a braai. It was fantastic! He
lives in a small 2-room house with a kitchen attached. As many of the homes
outside of the city of Thohoyandou where we are staying, he has no running
water and no indoor plumbing, so the water must be fetched from a tap down the
street and the toilet is in an outhouse in the back yard. In addition to the
outhouse, his yard is also equipped with a lemon tree, an avocado tree, and a
HUGE mango tree. His home is very typical of the area and, compared to most of
the homes in Tshapasha, he’s doing extremely well. He lives there with his wife (who he
explained he is legally married to though he hasn’t finished ‘paying her
family’ yet—they have a kind of reverse-dowry system here), and his 4-month old
son, Lufuno. We brought chakalaka wors, Russian sausages, and the beer. Marcus
and his wife prepared pap, rice, gravy, and pumpkin for us, and it was a
perfect South African braai meal. We all had a blast, and truly enjoyed getting
to know Marcus and his family. It was so nice of them to invite 6 Americans
over to their home to eat their food and obsess over their beautiful baby. I
was also lucky enough to have Marcus and his wife show me how the women around
here carry their babies around, which is on their backs. I have yet to see a
stroller or any baby-carrying contraption in South Africa, and these women use
simply two pieces of cloth. They throw their babies on their backs while bent
over, wrap a towel around themselves and the baby, and voila! They go about all
of their daily activities like this, including carrying huge buckets of water
on their heads, cooking, doing dishes, etc. Did I mention that when I say they
showed me how they do it, I mean that I had them attach Lufuno to me, South
African style? He remained there for a good 10-15 minutes until the towel
started to loosen and I worried he would fall. Another thing to point out is
that one of the reasons they’re able to do this without the towel slipping down
is that most of the women around here are much more well-endowed than I. They
got a kick out of it, I think, or were maybe just being polite. Either way, it
was a blast and was one of the most fun nights that we’ve had in SA thus far.
Plans for this week are coming together, and I was worried
that since we were done in Tshapasha that we’d have nothing to do. Not the case!
Today we meet with our Univen partners to get our last little bit of official
work done, and tomorrow we have been invited to the local “Science Center”,
which is having a big conference/exhibition. It will be a great opportunity to
network, as well as to see the kinds of things that are being done to improve
educational opportunities for local youth. We also plan to go to another
village, Masisi, to see our new local contact Vince’s after school community
center that he built. I’ve only met Vince once, but from what I can tell he is
incredible. He is from England, and just moved himself and his wife over here a
couple of years ago to build this center and help the community. I should note
that he and his wife just had a baby about a week ago, and he’s still taken the
time to meet with Sid and to attend our big community meeting last Saturday.
I’m excited to see what he’s done in Masisi and to see how that might translate
to something that can be done in Tshapasha in the future.
Wow. Less than one week to go! Enjoy the pictures! The first one is some village kids that were excited to see our bus pull up, to say the least. The next is Cassie, Myself, Mariam, and Joe while walking around the village after a meeting. The next is some of the community members after our big Saturday meeting after they got their certificates we presented. Next is our group with the Chief. The "Abortion" photo is from the market, but those flyers are literally EVERYWHERE around here, from town to remote village. It's insane. The next few are pretty self-explanatory, and are from last night at the braai at Marcus's house.